Posted by John J. Merchant on September 23, 2004 at 24:56:37:
You’re right about not wanting to stir up the rest of the family with an “undue influence” claim.
You and I have both seen some real bloodbaths caused by such, and only the lawyers come out well on one of these wars.
The way to avoid such is do everything here totally above-board and in the open…ANYTHING you do that’s concealed might rise and bite you hard someday.