an honest response - Posted by Matt B
Posted by Matt B on December 20, 2000 at 10:06:41:
I cannot speak for everyone, but I have many times offered complete help to people who are starting, and have received tons of help when I was starting out. People who I had never met before walked me through each potential deal, offering good, valid, useful advice on finding motivated sellers, marketing, constructing SPECIFIC deals, finding buyers, closing, etc.
I can understand where you’re coming from. When I first found this site, I was wondering what the catch was. I read and read through all the posts and articles and was blown away by all the great FREE information! I couldn’t believe it! I had been scammed many times before and was very skeptical about all these “pro investors” so willing to just give away their knowledge.
I did end up buying a couple of courses to help “fill in the gaps”, but when I had a question about something concerning what I had learned, posted it, and would usually have SEVERAL very good, FREE responses!
I have, on numerous occasions been contacted by people looking for help. Each time, I remembered the fantastic help that I was freely given here, and did what I could to help. Sometimes that just involved me adding an opinion about a deal that they were working on. With one person, I made some calls to sellers in HIS area that had responded to his ad. I recorded the conversations for him and played them back so he could hear the line of questions that I used, and how I dealt with sellers.
Amazingly, with all this free help, the vast majority find it fascinating, then abandon it. I’m sure someone else has a better understanding of this phenomenon, but I don’t understand. Then again, I have an addiction to creative real estate that has been afflicting me for a couple of years now.
So in answer to your question, for me at least, offering help to people starting out is just a way of giving back. Who started all this giving in the first place? Darned good idea!
I believe that those of us who have done deals on a regular basis soon realize that we do not know how to handle every situation that arises. The best way to learn more is to get that information from someone who has already dealt with that particular situation. Helping out others soon brings help to you. Kinda weird, huh?